Romance Ideas To Spark That Passion

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If you are looking for a new way to tease your lover in a romantic way, it might be a good time to have a romantic night in. Brainstorming about adult romance ideas can be tough, but it also can be rewarding. Not able to come up with any romantic night ideas, or any bedroom romance possibilities? Try out some of the following new adult romance ideas to help bring passion into your life.

Drop some candies in a trail leading to the bedroom, with a note attached mentioning a super sweet treat waiting at the end of the candy trail. Add a little bit of whipped cream, some cherries, and you will have a romantic adult dessert that your lover will adore.

If you haven't already, go on a shopping spree at a sex shop, and try out your new toys once you arrive at back at your home. Indulge in everything from sexy outfits, to videos, to new handbooks full of sex tips, to more unconventional and kinky toys.

For wild couples, why not attend a nudist event? The laid back atmosphere, along with the sight of your lover's naked body all day long is sure to please you. For the most romantic atmospheres, make an effort to look for secluded beaches, deserts, and forests near you.

Did you know that it is scientifically proven that the smell of a partner's sweat will turn you on? Join a gym for the healthiest kind of foreplay around. This might not sound like an adult romance idea, but after watching your beloved work out, you'll beg to differ.

One longtime favorite adult romance idea of many couples is to play dress up for an exciting sexual escapade. Buy a sexy costume, and become your partner's fantasy tonight!

Ever wonder what it feels like to be a model? Spice up your bedroom romance by having your own personal photo shoot. Take turns with your partner taking erotic photos of each other, and then admire them later.

The Japanese Yakuza came up with an erotic way to spice up a sushi dinner - by eating it off a beautiful woman. This is a great way to enjoy your lover's beautiful body.

Overall, the key to a great adult romance idea is to combine fantasy with reality. Adding a twist to the daily humdrum is all you need to do in order to have a romantic night you won't soon forget.

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Truths About Sex In A Relationship

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Almost everyone admits that after 10 years of marriage, trying to stay passionate to each other is never easy. No one can always act adoring or keep up an air of mystery while sharing the same space with his or her spouse year after year. Here are the truths about sex for most married couples.

(1) Love can last but passion needs regular charging

Some people do not need to reach the 7-year itch, because lust fades away as fast as the firework display. Especially for guys after marriage, they refocus their attention on career at the expense of their love lives, feeling that they have already their objectives in their love lives. When people stop trying to impress their partners, passion definitely goes downhill.

(2) Being complacent is never sexy

Couples who can stay emotionally connected to each other share many great moments and fond memories. They also pay special attention to creating those magical ones because great sex requires magic. It is only after you exercise some creativity and make an effort to reignite romance that you can both have a strong marriage and a good sex life.

(3) Greater intimacy does not necessary lead to stronger passion

Intimacy means willing to share each other's thoughts and feelings. Every relationship needs intimacy to flourish. However when we get to the point of knowing each other too well, predictably sets in and this can hurt passion in the long run.

(4) Becoming parents do not lead to better sex

After marrying for many years, people tend to look upon their spouses as their kids' father or mother more than regarding them as lovers as what they did when they initially met. When this happens, passion in bed definitely ebbs. Also the time invests in caring and nurturing kids can at times makes the husband feels neglected.

(5) You may be the last person in the world to know what turns him on

Guys tend not to reveal everything about themselves because it can make them look weak. That is why what moves us sexually is usually one of our most closely guarded secrets. Though greater intimacy does not necessary lead to greater sex but without intimacy, passionate lovemaking is impossible.

How to maintain the passion in marriage sex

(1) Do not assume you know everything about what pleases your spouse sexually

It is common for a husband and wife to be together for many years without each knowing what can please their spouse in bed. This can be due to out of embarrassment or being afraid to be seen as weird or selfish, in talking about it.

(2) Sharing each other's fantasies in an emotionally safe way

You can encourage your husband to slowly reveal aspects of his sexuality. You can say something like, "I have some craziest erotic ideas. Why not tell me something that you think will surprise me about how we can spice up our sex lives? I will promise to tell you something in return that will surprise you as well." Saying it in this way means you are willing to listen to something unexpected and can encourage your husband to be open. If saying out loud is still too embarrassing, encourage him to put his thoughts in words.

(3) Make sex more fun

You both can take turns to act out one of more of each other's sexual fantasies. Being playful can energize the feelings of each other.

(4) Offering examples

Encourage him to be more open about his real fantasies by saying something like, "What really excites you - being tied up and blindfolded, pretending I am someone else, you name it."

(5) Doing something different

Dress to impress each other. A different style of clothing or different hairstyle can trigger new feelings of each other.

Reference by : Eng_Hou_Ng

Male All-Body Orgasm Myths Revealed!

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Spicing up your sex life, with your man, is easy when you know the sexy secrets of a gifted Tantra Courtesan. Imagine spicing up your sex life today, with real sexy tidbits and sensual bedroom knowledge leaked by a gifted Sex Coach with many years of experience turning men on.

It is this Tantra Goddess's desire to tell the world about male all-body orgasm. The sex secrets, which you are soon to learn, earns me a substantial income - however, I believe that every man and women should be able to experience longer lasting sex and enjoy hours of all-body multiple orgasms. Let's get to the crux of the problem and talk about male orgasm.

Four Facts about Male Orgasm...

The average male orgasm lasts for 5-15 seconds with ejaculation.
Many men make no sound when they have sex.
Most men hold their breath, as they orgasm, which causes them to ejaculate.
Most men squeeze their legs and butt, 5-10 seconds before orgasm, and then they ejaculate.
The Average Male Orgasm lasts 5-15 seconds with Ejaculation
Men can experience hours of orgasm and match their partner equally, stroke for stroke in the bedroom. With some minor tweaking, men can climax and go deeper into orgasm and pleasure, if ejaculation is removed from the equation.

Many men make no sound when they have sex

The first question I ask a man, when I am working as a sex coach is... Have you slept with many women, and have you noticed that some ladies make lots of noise in the bedroom, while other women make no sound at all? My follow-up question is, who do you think are having the best orgasms, the quiet ladies or the noisy ones?

Readers here are their answers. The guys say that their sex partners, who make lots of noise, are the ones that seem to be having the first-rate orgasms. Therefore if your man makes no sound during sex, he is potentially crippling hours of orgasmic pleasure and bliss.

If your man makes no sound during sex, he is never truly surrendering to pleasure. Did you know most men are really turned when their partners moan and even scream during intercourse! It's like loudly praising the pleasure giver, wouldn't you think?

Most men hold their breath, as they orgasm, which causes them to ejaculate

This is just a bad masturbation technique practiced from puberty and many men hold their breath as they ejaculate. Here's an analogy, holding ones breath, as one ejaculates is like racing a formula one car, at high speeds, with one's foot resting on the brake. Teach your man to breathe slowly and deeply as he climaxes and your man will experience more intense orgasms!

Most men squeeze their legs and butt, 5-10 seconds before orgasm, and then they ejaculate

The potential to spread the male orgasm from between your man's thighs and into an all-body experience is crippled when males squeeze their legs and butt, around ten seconds, before orgasm. Watch your man and coach him to relax, if your man begins planking prior to a potentially earth shattering climax!

Fine Tune your Mans Orgasm to Last

With some minor tweaking every male can experience extended orgasm with delayed ejaculation. It is very easy to train your man to match your orgasms stroke for stroke. Do look out for the second part of this article, with four more facts about male all-body and multiple orgasms with delayed ejaculation. To find out more information check out Sexual Secrets of Great Lovers.

Reference by : Aleena_Aspley

Tips on How to Seduce a Woman You Work With

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There is a woman you work with whom you just cannot seem to get out your mind. You make small talk with her all of the time, trying to get in a little flirtation here and there. You enjoy this, but the reality is... you want more than that. You want to be able to find a way to make her want you, and you want to be able to go about it in a way that will not make things weird for you when you are at work. That can be complicated, that is for sure. The thing is, it does not mean that it cannot be done, because it can. You just have to be careful about how you go about seducing a female co worker.

Don't Rush Things...

When it comes to seduction, you never really want to rush things. However, when you are dealing with a situation that can be come "complicated" really easily, then you need to be even more aware of the need to have the timing down just right. Rushing things with a woman at a club? It does not matter so much, because you may or may not see her again. With a woman you work with, you KNOW that you are going to have to see her again, so timing is really a big deal.

Step One - You Need to Be Able to Fan The Flames...

Because of the fact that you need to get things just right, you want to "fan the flames," which really just means you want to get the attraction built up between you and her before you really make your move. If you can build up the attraction enough, then getting her to go out with you after work can be easy as pie. So how can you do this?

Flirt with her in a way that catches her off guard. Women will playfully flirt with male co workers all of the time and it really does not mean a thing. It's just a little fun while they are on the job. That's not the kind of flirting that you need to do. What you need to do is to take things just a little bit further, so that it catches her off guard and makes her realize that you are not just flirting the way that another co worker would.

Step Two - You Have to Take a Chance...

Once the attraction is built up between you and the woman you work with, then you need to do the next step and that is to actually take a chance and get her to go out with you. This can be done simply by suggesting that the two of you get together after work to let off some steam or just hang out. As long as the attraction really is there, then getting her to say yes should be easy.

Step Three - You Want to Lead Her With the Right Conversation...

Once you get her to go out with you, you cannot simply talk the way that you would on the job. The conversation has to be light and fun and it has to escalate to where you are using a little sexual innuendo here and there. You can kill any hopes that you have of being able to seduce a woman you work with if the conversation ends up stifling things between you and her.

Step Four - You Have to Make The Transition Back to Your Place...

Okay, so if you get her to go hang out with you, chances are it will not be at your apartment or hers. If it does end up there, that's good. If not, then you need to be able to make that transition. How do you do this? Well, the easiest way is to choose a place that is nearby where you live. Then use the conversation to lead to a point where you can suggest going back to your place and it just seems natural. Once you get her back to your place, it's on you to make things escalate even further.

Reference by : Chris_Tyler

Increase Sex Drive For Men

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f you think that all men are horny creatures which have nothing much else but sex on their minds, then you may have been mistaken because there is a large group of men and the group is getting bigger is that as far as they are concerned, sex could be the last thing on their minds.

Surprised? Not at all, because these men are suffering from low libido or low sex drive.

There are many reasons why they are suffering from low libido or even no sexual urges at all. To the detriment of these men, not only they are not able to enjoy normal sexual life, they may also not be able to satisfy their spouses or sexual partners causing unhappiness leading to divorces and breakups.

So let us take a look at the causes of low sex drive and then check out the remedies that can correct this male deficiency.

Low sex drive can be triggered off by psychological, emotional and physical causes. Just any single one of these factors will sometimes be enough to shut off a person's sex drive, whether you are a man or a woman. Very unfortunately, some men may even have a combination of all these trigger factors thus compounding their sexual health problems.

Anxiety, depression, stress and many other negative emotions such as hatred, anger and unhappiness are known psychological and emotional causes of low sex drive irrespective of gender. The trouble is that as far as men are concerned, these factors not only make them have lower sex drive, they may also cause impotency or commonly known as erectile dysfunction causing their male sexual health to take another downward spin which can be very demoralising.

On the physical aspect of this phenomenon, the testosterone level of men decline correspondingly as they age. Testosterone is commonly called the "male sex hormone" for a reason. This predominantly male hormone is responsible for giving men their manly attributes, features and characteristics. It is also responsible for the male sex drive, ability to get good erections, building strength and muscles, maintaining bone density, increasing mental alertness and many other positive health benefits.

Unfortunately, the production of this almost amazing hormone start to decline in your twenties and the decline is unceasing year after year. That could be the reason why more mature men suffer from loss of libido and erectile dysfunction although younger men can also be victims too.

So what are the remedies to increase male sex drive? On the emotional and psychological aspect, by removing the root causes will help immediately. On the physical aspect, make your body produce more testosterone.

Enhancing testosterone production can be achieved by eating healthy meals that are rich in proteins, low to moderate in carbohydrates and fats. We all know the reasons for eating low fat meals but why limit carbohydrates too?

This is because carbohydrates, especially those that are of the high glycemic variety like sugary food and drinks, confectionaries can cause an increased level of insulin and cortisol in the bloodstream which will affect your testosterone production negatively.

To boost your testosterone level even further, start a regular exercise program. Start a bodybuilding program if you can. The reason is because when you do weight lifting to build muscles, your body needs to produce more testosterone so that it can help your muscles to repair itself and grow bigger and stronger.

If you are thinking of expensive and risky testosterone replacement program, you may wish to consider supplementing your diet with natural herbal testosterone enhancing pills instead. There are many natural supplements you can take that encourage your body to produce more of your own testosterone.

So the remedies to increase sex drive is to be happy, have more positive emotions, eat and sleep healthily, exercise regularly and supplementing with testosterone enhancers and become the stud that is in you.

Reference by : Chris_Chew

Say Goodbye To Bedroom Boredom!

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Are you suffering from "bedroom boredom"? Are you ready to rejuvenate your sex life and take it from lukewarm to sizzling hot? Please read on...

If you and your partner are ready to take your sexual relationship to a whole other level and reach new heights of sexual ecstasy, you must first understand a few things about each other's bodies and sexual responses.

People differ in their sexual responses much in the same way as they do in their physical appearance and their personalities. When you begin to explore your own sexuality, you will not only get to know yourself better, you will also develop more self-confidence. It's like my tantra teacher once said, "Nothing builds self-confidence like sexual-competence."

When you get to know your own sexual responses, you should also learn about your partner(s). Find out how he or she likes to be touched, kissed, caressed and more importantly, what their inner most desires are. To do this, talk to your partner about their sexual preferences and be open to listening attentively to whatever they share with you.

Additionally, there are certain sexual techniques you can practice to increase your own pleasure and your partner's...

1. Pelvic Control: When you learn to control the muscles of your pelvic region, what is often referred to as the PC muscles, you can multiply sexual pleasure, increase genital health and men can more easily learn ejaculation control. Pelvic exercises are sometimes called 'kegels" and they require simply tensing the muscles of the vagina or penis, as though you were stopping the flow of urine. There are different methods people use to exercise the muscles of their pelvis. Some people use repetitions, as though they were exercising any other muscle. For example, a method I like is to tighten the pelvic floor, holding it for a count of 10, then slowly releasing. The great thing about this technique is that it can be done anywhere whether you are at home, at work, on the bus or waiting in line at the post office. It is basically imperceptible to most people.

Also, the "towel technique" can be very effective for men who suffer from premature ejaculation. It consists of placing a towel or wash cloth over the man's erection and squeezing the PC muscles to lift the towel, which acts as a weight. Over time, when the muscles of penis begin to strengthen, he can graduate to wrapping a silk scarf around his erection, with a small weight attached.

2. Ejaculation Control: Tantric techniques encourage ejaculation control and semen retention in men as being the most powerful sexual skills that a man can acquire. It is believed that orgasm without ejaculation can help a man preserve his yang essence, allowing him to prolong intercourse and give his partner the chance to reach orgasm. Moreover, it can help a man learn to experience multiple orgasms (yes, it's possible) because sexual energy amplifies, when it is not given the chance to dissipate.

3. G-Spot Stimulation: Other techniques that couples can use to enhance sexual pleasure include stimulating a woman's g-spot. Located about 2 inches from the top wall of the vagina, the g-spot is about the size of a quarter and slightly rougher to the touch than the surrounding tissue. The g-spot can be stimulated manually by placing two fingers inside the front end of the vagina and drawing the fingers in with a "come hither" motion. The g-spot can also be stimulated through intercourse or tantric techniques.

4. Relaxation: Studies have shown that women and men differ in the way they have sex. Brain scans of men and women having sex have revealed that men rely more heavily on physical stimulation, while female sexual arousal seems to depend more on deep relaxation and the lack of anxiety. So if a man wants to please a woman in bed, he needs to make sure that she's sufficiently relaxed. If she needs help unwinding after a hard day at work, he can guide her through a meditation, massage her with aromatic oils or my favorite yet...blindfold her and tantalize her gently with feathers and silk scarves. Keep in mind that a man will be contributing to his own sexual pleasure, when he is assisting a woman in hers.

5. Tantric Sex: Discovering tantra can not only rejuvenate a sleepy sex life, it can also help us achieve heights of sexual ecstasy, we may never have imagined ourselves capable of experiencing. In tantra, the interplay and balance between the male and female aspects of our personalities (Shiva & Shakti or Yin & Yang) are an essential part of lovemaking. The male characteristics such as intellect, ambition and assertiveness make him the "giver" during sex, while the feminine nurturing, intuitive and receptive nature of the woman make her the "receiver". Couples often have these gender roles reversed, where the woman is more of an active giver, while the man more passively receives. While it can be exciting to experiment with different roles, great value can be gained when both partners are given the chance to express themselves with their most natural way. When a woman relaxes, she can let go of "control" and enter into a state of "allowing" where she opens herself up to receiving. Her partner can then more easily enter into his yang or male energy, which leads and "penetrates" the yin or feminine essence.

Reference by : Katrina_Damore

 

How Long Is Long Enough For Her

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Great sex is about sexual technique? Or is it about effective sexual communication? Or is it about sex toys? If you do a search on the Amazon website, you can easily find over 150 books with great sex in the title, each offering various kinds of ideas about sex. As the saying goes, "One man's meat is another man's poison", when comes to making love which is something very personal, one person's great sexual ideas may not necessarily be yours. The subtler the sex myths, the more damaging they can do to your relationship and love life. Here are a few of the more common sex myths that a lot of guys tend to believe.

(1) Women are not interested in watching porn

It never occurs to most guys that women get in touch with their sexuality through pornography. The fact is women often use literary erotica or more subtle pictures of half-naked males to accomplish what men use pornography for. Women can be equally as horny as men.

(2) You need to give a woman an orgasm in every lovemaking session

The fact is at times not due to the fault of either party, or it can be due to certain temporary psychological factors, a woman is not able to reach orgasm. This is perfectly normal. When a guy feels that sex will not be complete if he is not able to bring a woman to orgasm, this will exert a lot of pressure on both parties. When your mind becomes fixated on the goal of achieving orgasm, your chances of actually reaching this peak of sexual excitement can diminish significantly. The thing is, many women who do not have orgasms can still find sex fulfilling as long as they feel loved.

If you are struggling with achieving a powerful orgasm, it may be because your foreplay is lacking. What you should do is you can slightly tease each other and come close to orgasm without actually achieving one, when she comes her final orgasmic moment will be spectacular. Teasing one another is playful and fun and creates a sexual buildup that powerfully culminates in her final orgasm.

(3) There is a right amount of sex

Many guys will start to get concerned about their relationships when the frequency of sex decreases after an initial spurt of almost every late night's bedroom orgy. The fear out there is everyone else out there is having a lot more sex than you are. The fact is people have different sex drive levels and it is perfectly normal about having sex once or twice a week, or even less frequently for some couples.

(4) The longer the lovemaking session the better it is

Most men think so. They will try to push sex regularly past the hour mark, and get frustrated or disappointed if they cannot extend their bedroom sessions to the tantric levels of longevity.

The reality is that longer sex does not necessarily equal better sex. It usually results in a lot of sore body parts and painful sex due to prolonged penetration. Here is the simple truth. You only need to last as long as it takes for a woman to have an orgasm. This does not even need to be achieved through vaginal penetration. A woman is capable of getting an orgasm through foreplay, oral sex, masturbation or even mental seduction. As long as she receives her orgasm, the amount of time you spend inside her does not matter much. What a guy should do is to spend more time and effort during foreplay and bring her to climax before entering her. Even if you do not last even a minute longer after penetration, she will still give you 100 marks for your sexual performance.

Reference by : Eng_Hou_Ng